Saturday, October 31, 2009
can i not study -i doubt so
do i have alot of time left -definitely not
can i do well- erm i dun think so
do i need to study NOW--a big fat YES
will i be free soon----YES ABT ONE MORE MONTH
i desperately need to study harder harder harder, sleep lesser, and lose some weight seriously :(
♥ tata
4:49 AM
deep thoughts part 1 :)
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Haix I wanted to blog this after yesterday’s talk with calista and Sheryl but I weren’t feeling quite well and so delayed till today. I find it rather interesting about what we humans are thinking. We really thought deep yesterday. Trust me we never talked in such manner before but it’s rather fun. We talked about religions, friends, human nature and how different people think. I will try to write out what we said, probably in parts.
The topic I found rather interesting is what we think about friends.
We mentioned that we may have friends for a reason, friends maybe seasonal, and some may be for life. But is it possible? To me friends are always there for a reason. Different groups of friends have different meaning to me in my life. Some are there to have fun with, some are there to support me when I have any problems and some are there as a good listener. As what one of my friend told me, friends are like stars, you can’t see them but you know they are there. These are those friends whom we think that our friendship will last for ever or at least for the next ten years. I have friends that I enjoy playing with, sharing my problems with, people who I feel comfortable with. It is not necessary that we meet up everyday, talk to each other everyday about everything, but as long as u feel that this person plays an important part in your life and there a place in your heart he or she stands. Friends are there for a reason. They are different from you family, teachers. There is an amazing connection between friends that bring people together. There is something that you will do, play and tell your friends but you won’t do the same thing to your family. For example, you will most probably talk about the other sexes, your eye candy, or even some of your worries to your friends before telling your family members because you may think that they somehow understand how you feel better than your family members and there is a common topic or thinking between friends that is not among your family. This is probably why friends are important in our lives.
Then what is considered as seasonal friends? They are probably what my friends will call them as acquaintance. There are friends that only appear in your life for only a short period of time. They can be schoolmates, ex colleagues etc who you enjoy spending time with but they seem less important in your life. We can have many seasonal friends in our lives. They maybe someone who you are very close with at this moment but not in the future. They are known as seasonal fans. Because there is such thing as seasonal friends, there are people who fear in parting with their friends and may choose to slowly drift apart from them before the actual day where they leave each other and have a new life The main reason for people to do this is because no one likes the feeling of parting, that’s human and they felt that this friendship can no longer maintain if they each have different life to live. Because of this, some believe there is no ‘friends for live’
However I strongly believe that there are something called ‘friends for life’. They are those who I will remember them forever and proud to call them my friends. Probably because I have never felt the feeling of parting or maybe I did but I just never realize it. Or maybe there are no good friends that I part with or no one important left me? I wont choose to ‘drift’ away from my friends. I don’t know. With the advancement in technology I think there is a way for people to continue to keep in contact with each other, the feelings will not change as long as we put in the effort to maintain this friendship. If even the friendship between you and your friend is drifting apart, I believe there are still happy moments that you spend together.
to be continued.......
♥ tata
7:54 AM
